Advice on dating chinese girls
"This trial and error approach to romance is thought to be important for finding the right partner.
To choose the 'right' partner, an American man might be in contact with other Chinese women, visiting them, and calling them." For some Chinese women, this behavior is unacceptable.
Gorshow gives advice that pertains to any woman in a relationship, regardless of country of origin.
"What a Chinese woman should pay attention to when she is dating an American man or any man, is how she feels when she is with him, talking with him on the phone or through the Internet," says Gorshow. Or, do you feel that your thoughts and opinions are not important, that he is not that interested in getting to know you or that he gets angry quickly when you express thoughts and ideas which are different than his?
Early on, inquire about the role their birthplace and heritage plays in his/her daily life.
As you get to know your date, talk about traditions, gender roles and expectations.
Attitudes about physical affection can also be cultural; take things slow as you get to know one another.
It's possible to bring a Chinese woman over to the United States under the auspices of an engagement, creating a situation where the woman may feel pressured to marry.
"It is important for you to consider why you want to be in America and what would happen if you were with a man whose sole reason for choosing you is that he wants you to be dependent and compliant," says Gorshow.
" "A difference between a Chinese woman and an American woman is that Chinese woman historically has been the more dependent and compliant halves in a couple relationship," says Gorshow.