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I ultimately had to turn to e Harmony.” “Online dating = B .Real World Dating = D .” “Better for men than for women.” “Creativity, guys…not Netflix and chill.” “LAME; as a 31 year old single woman, every man I encounter is living the “cushy single boy lifestyle,” which I have determined is a result of: men being paid way too much in their current jobs, being way too comfortable being single (even though they say “they want a relationship”), and then when said relationship happens realizing it’s cramping their “cushy single boy lifestyle.” Needless to say – so grim on that front.” “Every man seems to be married, and if he isn’t married, he is not looking to date.” “Straight female here – there’s a severe shortage of really interesting, multi-faceted, and insightful men in this town.I’ve never had any issues finding a new partner :)” “Bumble app is the way to go!” “Very few of the men want to ask women out in person.Charlotte has become very superficial and everybody is waiting for something better to come along than focusing on what they have in front of them. I think the dating scene is exceptional despite what all my friends would tell you. Bonus: Men are typically not photogenic so you’re usually in for a pleasant surprise when you meet them.I am just as guilty in this, but it is a product of the environment we are in.” “If I meet one more guy who works in finance and whose primary hobby is drinking I will lose my mind.” “I dated most everyone who had both a face and a job on Tinder. “I’m really not into the bro’d out, preppy, Vineyard Vines type. Give me diversity and some hunka hunka outdoorsy guys.” “For an ex Special Forces guy it’s pretty easy pickins in this city of metrosexual girly men…especially since most of them are candy asses from up north…” “CLT is full of people who are committed to their career first and relationship second.I’m fairly social, but nobody seems to approach anyone anymore.Too many apps.” “There aren’t a lot of options to meet black professionals that also want a black professional.” “As a gay male, difficult to find men with ambition, education, intellect.” “I was 29 when I moved to Charlotte 10 years ago and I moved from SF.
Frat-tactic, and that’s not my scene.” “Most men are metro sexual and so full of themselves.” “After many trials and tribulations in the Charlotte dating scene (including my first ever ghosting experience), I met my current boyfriend on Tinder.
Women are looking for men with money.” “What happened to Southern Charm?
” “Lots of attractive, available, stable men (from a female perspective).
” “Dating for 40 is extremely difficult” “Wasteland if you’re over 45” “It’s great for my 27-year-old daughter, but awful for me, her 54-year-old mom.” “Men in Charlotte are too buttoned up, too shy, etc.
With so many people marrying young or in serious relationship, it’s not a great city for singles in my opinion.” “I’m sure I’m just looking in all of the wrong places, but as a young, successful, outgoing female, it is very hard to find mature, dateable guys here.
I’m over the pastel shorts, the men who think that having a hot “girl” on their arms somehow makes him more of a man, and the hipsters who think that if they listen to Father John Misty maybe people won’t notice that they only date a woman if she fits into a certain dress size and ups his social capital.” “I’m married.