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Please do not be under the false impression that you got married to become his wife, you are just his mother’s assistant. He will threaten you with divorce every time you dare to speak out.
Still if you really, really have to marry a Pakistani man, then it would be best to think of yourself as his puppet.
Don’t expect him to wake up in the middle of the night and change diapers — that is a lowly job meant only for wives to do. You will be expected to act in a proper and dignified manner at all times.
You must kill the child inside you and remember you cannot be seen roaming about the house in your pyjamas or just relaxing, even if the house is empty; it is disrespectful to the ghosts living in the house.
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She will not allow you to change anything in the house, even though the ‘you’re just like my daughter’ line has been thrown at you; not even the brand of tea that she uses, so don’t try it!As a mother-in-law in Pakistan, she also holds the divine right of telling you exactly what she thinks of your relationship with your husband (her son first) and will offer all kinds of unsolicited advice, whether you want it or not. Of course, you must never let him feel like you are unhappy because then he will get hurt and being blinded by the pain of the ‘unfair pressure’ you put on him, will be left with no choice but to divorce you – possibly via a text saying, And tadaa, you’re divorced. To marry this highly eligible bachelor you must impress him. Apparently they never had any of those things before his highness met you. You, dear ladies, will be his property and he will not ‘allow’ you to hang out with male friends (only immodest girls do that).It is just part and parcel of the legacy of being a Pakistani mother-in-law. No, not with your good looks, charm or personality, this pauper… But don’t take this lightly at all, there can, and have been, huge fights over dowry; sometimes, in a rage of greed they burn you or even kill you for not bringing that last toothpick left in your house! You will have to live with over a dozen other people in a small, cramped house. Not only do you live with his parents, you share space with his three other brothers and their families. Do not pester him into letting you go for a movie with your friends because this may result in him calling you all sorts of names, from dogs and cats to mothers and fathers – or, he will go crying to his mother, who will sympathise with all her heart and this little tête-à-tête will result in him texting you, 6.Stop being yourself, it was cute then, he can’t stand it now. You will not have a share in your husband’s property while his parents are alive.You will have to wait until they expire; with your luck, they might just outlive you. You must do all the household chores yourself; do not expect any help from your husband. It is your absolute duty to make sure the house is well looked after and that his mother does not have to move an inch! Do not ever suspect him of extramarital affairs; do not let him know that he has bad breath and that he snores.
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