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I have had others say they were separated for four years, living their own lives, and when the divorce became final, it STILL hurt and they still had some issues to resolve.All of this takes a toll on the new person you are dating and the relationship.I agreed but feel like I am cheating because technically I am still marrried. I don't know but I definetly have mixed feeling although I said I would go to dinner. DO you think you are being fair to this nice gentleman if you cannot put your full effort if he is looking for something more?I Did explain to this person that I am not ready for anything and that I am separated. Most of my friends are happy that I am going because of the hell I have endured for so long but I do have one friend who frowns on it. What happens if he falls for you and then you cannot provide him what he was hoping for?I think you should wait it out a bit more until you are fully recovered.i do think you should get out but possibly not lead anyone on, make it clear what it is.
When I was dating the separated guy, I had friends who said "good for you" and others who said "he's still married"..people won't accept a separation as a relationship ending, they will only accept it as real once the papers are signed...other people see that once both parties "check out" then it's over, once the mental commitment ends, it's over.My husband and I have been separated for three months but we went through this last year.We are legally separated and I am 95% sure I will end up divorcing him.If there is ANY SHRED of uncertainty or ANY SHRED of unresolved issues with your husband, then don't.There is a book "mars and venus starting over" about dating after marriage and the mental processs...check it out, it's very enlightening.