Dating at different colleges
Finally you can have an intelligent conversation with like-minded people who like you for your brains instead of your body.
The only thing worse than walking by those ignorant construction workers making cat calls at you is walking by a frat house. They may have ambition and all these great ideas, but they’re none of those things they say they are–they just aspire to be.
If you’re lucky enough to hook up with someone, you probably sucked at it, and you’re unlikely to get a call back.
Expectation: Having finished a wild night of passion, you just want to relax and lay next to someone. It was a bad idea to snort coke off a stripper’s stomach. Wait, I live here–I need to get them out of here before my roommates wake up.
Strong communication skills help you enjoy better relationships with friends and family.
Real people are much different–keep your expectations in check.
Expectation: When you get someone’s number, you get excited, no matter how cool you try to act. Trying to replicate a sexual experience through text is a waste of time and it makes everyone uncomfortable. Expectation: Now that everyone’s a mature adult over the age of 18, you imagine having creative and romantic encounters with mature college men and women.
Being an effective communicator will give you advantages in more ways than you can imagine.
Conversely, being poor at communicating will negatively impact your life.
Thirty-year-olds looks back at their college selves the same way college students looks back at their preteen selves.