Dating tips for skinny guys
So I end up dating "buff" guys anyway b/c they're more accepting.
Plus maybe it's just the ones I've met (and this is specific to me liking indie guys I guess) but they have very unconventional taste in women from what I've seen, they don't seem to like "cookie cutter" girls but those with short hair and tattoos and unusual clothing seem more attractive to them.
Probably your attitude It's the same as when fat girls say "why don't guys date fat girls," 99% of the time there are plenty of guys out there willing to date fat girls, just not the ones who have a bad attitude My attitude is fine, I actually get attention from girls but not the hot girls. Sorry to be rude, but it seems like you may need to mature rather a lot before being able to have an actual relationship with a real woman. Unless your objective is to sleep around, in which case fair enough.
I know I'm being shallow but as I said you only get to be young once and I want to see around for a bit while getting really hot girls. Unless your objective is to sleep around, in which case fair enough. I'm simply saying the hot girls don't like me, other girls do, so the message seems to be that I'm not attractive enough. Perhaps it's your attitude that is the problem rather than your appearance?
You are attracted to the type you’re attracted to, and the vast majority of men and women couldn’t be convinced to develop attraction to someone if the feeling wasn’t there naturally.
Men and women refuse dates with others for any of the following reasons: they don’t like overweight people; they don’t like short people; they won’t date someone too skinny; they don’t like people who walk funny. One particular group of people who get stigmatized – short men – find that many women wouldn’t date them because they’re short. Is that a mean-spirited way to cast aside a group of men who could be truly decent people?
They always seem to go for masculine, muscly, tall strapping jock types. I do cheer and am OK looking and I prefer skinny hipster/indie looking guys TBH they don't seem like women who lift though even if they aren't bulky (possibly because they don't lift themselves).
In my entire life I've never seen a conventionally beautiful girl with a skinny guy. These skinny guys are seen as "cute" but kinda asexual. I guess this is where the cheerleader-jock pairing comes from. Go out there and actually talk to as many hot girls as you can as I'm sure one of them eventually is going to have a thing for skinny guys. Because I'm sure you haven't and just want to complain about an imaginary problem that doesn't exist.Scenario: You don’t include the fact that you’re short in your profile (or overweight, extremely tall, etc.). Reality check: The person you’re on a date with isn’t going to have another date with you because they don’t want to be with someone short, so you ended up wasting all that time emotionally anticipating the date, getting ready for the date, going on the actual date, traveling to and from the date.You go out on a first date with someone who doesn’t want to date a short person, but your date had no idea that you were short because you didn’t include it in your profile. Had you included a reference to your height in your profile, you could have saved yourself a lot of time and energy.In an ideal world, people would naturally get along and no one would care too much about appearance or fitting in.One of the realities about dating that will never change is that physical appearance matters.
I can't compete with a girl who has that and can talk about electronic music or something, nor do I want to really, that stuff isnt my thing and as I want a corporate job I can't go round dressing and acting like the ideal hipster girl. It's teeming with hipster guys in skinny jeans with conventionally looking girls.