Ex dating soon after breakup
I was under the assumption that you and he hadn't met before. After break up, when you are depression, you just make a profile, go out to make feel good about yourself. It was in person and we did just about everything together. You'l just say that, you are still in love with your ex and not ready for a relationship right? He'l think, if this girl loved her ex, why the hack she made a dating profile the very next day after break up? So my point is, stop making conclusion because you can never know the truth unless you ask. Sometimes things get so bogged down, that even when you try to work hard at fixing things, there's so much negativity clouding your mind, with all the issues here and there, you can't do anything.
And yes, he reactivated an old online dating profile the day after the break up. I just can't grasp why someone would insist that they still love me and yet be looking for someone else the next day. I guess, may be i didn't look good, or she wasn't interested in me.... This is when you need to step back and take a break, and sort things out. And to answer your question, yes....do things differently than we do.
Work on you and if he fights to win you back great but if he doesn't you can only keep going it will get better even my situation will in time.. I see this post was a year ago and before I say anything to you, I wanted to see how your feelings and the situation have evolved.I am going through exactly what you described and this is why I am reaching out to you. I hope you get this message girl and hope your heart has healed...Wow this is my exact problem at the moment..glad I dont feel alone in this...bf and i dated for 2.5 years...We each dated another person in between for a few months each. He took a job a thousand miles away and asked me to come out. the first day there he said he made a mistake with me and it was the biggest regret of his life and asked me to marry him. I went home and left my career and everything in my life and packed up my things and gave a long notice at work, to go be with him because he was the love of my life, so I thought.When I got there I found out he cheated on me before I even got there while we were engaged, it was with some girl he met online.
Then he got very angry with me for saying that wasn't true. What we had before all of this arguing was something that's hard to come by. I still wish it could have been resolved and think it could have if he gave it more of a chance rather than take on the attitude of when things get difficult to try less, or so it seemed, although he says he was trying but admits not as much as could have toward the end. I thought about writing him a letter and letting him know that I still love him and that I'm sorry while acknowledging that things were over but still wishing him the best just to get some closure. I really want him to be happy but I need to be, too. You and he didn't have an online relationship, right?