Latinas dating white men
I say, who cares why a person asked you out initially if it leads to something special. And what about your random (to Chad) black girl interests?The stuff that he’s culturally grown up being into that you’ve never heard of or know nothing about and vice versa?Plus you won’t have to reprogram him on stuff a prior black girl told him that doesn’t apply to you.If he’s been on an exclusive dating diet of black woman, I think that’s ok too. You may be concerned he has a fetish or that there is something disingenuous about his interest, i.e. But even if you being black was the reason he first asked you out, the relationship won’t last if there isn’t real love or partnership there.Which is to say, it looks and feels like a regular conversation. But, it could also just be a legit platonic hang out. Chad could also deny it not because he’s shy but because he wants to play coy and flirty, something like “A date? Oh no, [wink wink] just wanted to hang with you.” Which is still confusing. ”I recommend using context clues to determine if you’re dating. They don’t conquer black girls the way their ancestors conquered countries.If that is happening with you, it could be them flirting. But, if you guys hang more than five times and nothing physical or romantic happens (hand holding, a kiss or more), then either it’s not a date or he’s a monk.The first few meals may be akin to the dinner scene in Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom ( my personal fav of the Indiana Jones franchise) wherein Kate Capshaw gave the most incredible facial reactions of all time to crazy ass food like monkey brains and eyeball soup.
White men generally flirt in the same way that they conduct business meetings. That’s why I say you may already be dating one because you may have misconstrued the seemingly platonic hangouts you’ve been having with Chad as non romantic, but to him, it’s a date. You may be tempted to be direct and flat out ask him, “Hey Chad, is this a date? Sensitive white dudes scare easily so tread lightly. I wouldn’t get thrown off by whether he makes a move on the first few of these “dates.” Like I said, they can be subtle and shy and slooooow, so give it some time.Here’s a tip though, offer to bring a side dish when you’re going to see his people.You shouldn’t show up empty-handed to someone’s house anyway — you know that. Honestly, move over Serena Williams, because you’re in town now!Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter to me why you’re reading this article. I’m black, my man is white and we’ve been together for over six years.
Doesn’t mean people can’t change and grow if they want to.