My best friend is dating the girl i love
She got back home during her two week vacation from work and we met up the very evening she returned.
But something within me changed when I saw her this time around. It felt weird to even look at her as my best friend.
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Jessica is also a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Registered Drama Therapist with over 10 years of experience. Jessica Engle, the director of Bay Area Dating Coach, says: "If you have feelings for your best friend, the two of you need to talk about it.
But all I could think of was how I could tell her that I was falling in love with her. And then came the awkward silence because I told her everything I felt, including all the romantic and the sexual details. The way I professed my love for her was the stupid part. [Read: 8 perfect ways to tell someone you love them for the first time] We parted ways that night with a warm hug and she left the next morning.
The two weeks passed swiftly, and without thinking, on the last night before she had to leave, I told her that I was in love with her. Things seemed really fine even though I asked her out, but in reality, things were never the same again.
[Read: How to get over a crush and have fun doing it] But if you’re secretly in love with your best friend, there are a few things you need to think about and a few things you need to do before you pop the big question out of the blue. But how sure are you that it’s love and not a passing infatuation? Could you just be jealous because your good looking friend is dating someone else, or is your feeling of love a side effect of having less time to spend with each other because your friend is now busy doing something else or dating someone else?