My boyfriends on dating sites
He is still using manhunt and also had a grindr account. All the excuses in the world will not change what is going on, accept it & move on. Move on, it was the hardest thing I've ever done but I don't regret it. he used to constantly leave me pack bags an go and there has been so many things I question along the way. i'm starting to think that this man has been a really really bad bad horrible person and turn a lot of things behind my back.I tried to talk about it but he was so mad that I hadnt dropped this by now, that it was old and we already fought about it than he said it was over between us because I cant let things go. for 2 1/2 years he has emotionally wrecked me with lies, making me feel I was crazy because of the things I questioned. I gave him everything and done everything I could . he says he's never cheated but we have had conversations about being bi curious.
I can understand people struggling with sexuality but lying and betraying is unforgivable. Been with the same guy for almost 3 years and it started out with him cheating/flirting with girls behind my back (sex, hanging out, messaging), then being emotionally/physically abusive, to most recently having mutilple subscriptions to straight & gay hookups sites, he even made a Grindr. I would always find out way later on and be crushed, then he would try to apologize and be emotional then expect me to move on from it quickly.And like any other desperate girlfriend, I believe him. I stayed another month believin everything he said, the same things your man said to you. And you need to look after yourself first, put your own heart first. The man of your dreams IS you there and won't make you question anything. During that time i had caught him cheating/ pursuing other women a few times!Now, we are miles away and I'm trying to understand and to forget what I've seen or just happened. I'm confused and sometimes I just want to finish the relationship. I broke up with him but he always kept coming round wearing me down.I had to dump him because he had relationships with men. He kept this side of him from me for almost 4 years.Now he said it was a passing fling and he really wants to be with only one hetero woman.
Larivadeanz, Not worth even finding out if he wants to make it work and such. I found him on American Bisexuals..was stupid enough to show his face/posted that he was BI-wanted hookups/long term 1 on 1 with CD, Trans, Cross-Dressers, Females, Males.could accommodate for transportation.