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This book will shape debates surrounding "hookup culture" for many years to come.
Wade has garnered national and international attention as a public scholar for many years now.
The author did a good job of describing the culture on campus rather than just focusing on what is happening, which I thought was a good approach.
The UVA riot over students being told that they can't have their muskets on campus that required a response from a militia really stands out.
The book is historically grounded, empirically rich, and completely engaging throughout.
Wade also shows how people can continue on in hookup mode beyond college thanks to Tinder and Grindr, etc., but that the majority of students seem to grow weary of it before they even graduate, and start gravitating toward relationships over hookups. What needs to be understood is the cause of students' unhappiness isn't because they're having more sexual relationships than other generations—they're not—but it's because of the culture! Quote from page 15: "On campuses across America, students are sounding an alarm.but that they often find this a difficult transition to navigate. They are telling us that they are depressed, anxious, and overwhelmed.Half of first-year students express concern that they are not emotionally healthy, and one in ten say that they frequently feel depressed.Students are less happy and healthy than in previous generations, less so even than just ten or twenty years ago." A very important book.I follow Lisa Wade on Facebook, and I find her posts to be interesting, so when I saw she had a book published, i was interested. Excerpts she posted were great (see link to a Guardian article, below), but I worried the full book would be dry. This is fascinating and enlightening and, ultimately, reassuring.
The obvious callouts are here, but the main message is that hookup perpetuates white, hetero, gender stereotypes for both men and women. Never has someone observed things so well but gotten the conclusions so wrong.