Non sexual relationship dating
I’m not claiming to have this down, or to always get it right.
In fact, I feel able to talk and write about this topic precisely because I have got it wrong so many times and God has consistently shown me grace and turned my mistakes into good.
I’ve found that women having sex before marriage is often treated for some reason as a sin worse than others, it’s not.
There is always enough grace, God’s love does not alter when you have sex: The Christian Relationship Myth Finally, an actual Christian relationship is really not what you’d think!
I was once so into my faith and I was happy but since then I have drifted.
I believe in God but somedays that belief is stronger than others.
God set this rule for a reason, and it’s too clear in the Bible to try and argue your way around it (me and my friends tried that one too!
I have found that the main challenges facing Christian girls (and the ones I struggled with HUGELY) are dating non-Christians, not having sex before you’re married, and the christian relationship myth!
I’ll briefly touch on these three things from what I’ve learnt in my own experiences. Dating Non-Christians To start, the Bible pretty specifically tells us we should not be having relationships with non-Christians: Your mission to share your faith with non-Christians doesn’t extend to dating them.
Whenever I am thinking on or praying about relationships, mine or other peoples, this verse is always an excellent foundation.
God makes things work for your good, and that includes your dating life.
He points me to Christ, shares wisdom, prays for and with me, encourages me when I am feeling doubtful and fights with me to hold firm to my faith and the values we share.